2020 DEEPAVALI IS DIFFERENT
As Deepavali (Diwali) approaches, this year feels different. It is not about the abundance of sweets or the perfect outfits, nor the elaborate jewellery or extravagant shopping sprees. It is not about the grand open houses or joyful visits to family and friends, or them visiting us for Deepavali, or even the familiar sounds of firecrackers lighting up the night sky. It is not about having a grand vacation at an exotic location, nor is it even about the score of your golf game… This year, as we prepare to celebrate, Deepavali takes on a deeper meaning, shaped by the lessons we are learning during this challenging time.
With Malaysia still under the Conditional Movement Control Order (CMCO) just days before Deepavali, we are facing strict restrictions on gatherings, travel, and public events. Open houses and family visits, which are typically a highlight of the festive season, are not possible this year. The lively celebrations we are accustomed to are replaced with quieter, more intimate moments. The sound of firecrackers, usually filling the air with joy, will likely be absent from the scene. Instead, we are adjusting to new ways of celebrating, a celebration of survival, reflection, and gratitude.
Covid-19 has made it painfully clear that life is short. While we may have always known this, the pandemic has brought it to the forefront in ways we could never have imagined. It has taught me to be truly grateful for the simple things, still being able to breathe, still being alive to witness another day. The fragility of life is clear, and we are reminded to cherish every moment, every breath. This Deepavali is about survival, appreciating the gift of life, and being thankful for the chance to see another day.
This year, it is also about being thankful for the love and care of family and friends. Though we may not be able to gather in person, their presence, even from afar, is deeply felt in our hearts. While we cannot host or visit loved ones this year, we are reminded that the true spirit of Deepavali is found in the togetherness of the heart, not in the number of guests at the door.
In this quieter celebration, we light a Deepam (diya), not just for the light it brings to our homes, but as a symbol of hope, remembrance, and healing. We honour the souls who have left us, their absence deeply felt, yet their spirits remain alive in our hearts.
This year, Deepavali calls for compassion. It is about reaching out to those who have faced loss, whether of loved ones, jobs, or businesses. It is about offering support to each other during these uncertain times.
Most of all, this Deepavali reminds us to hold onto hope. Hope for a future where we can reunite with family and friends, hear the joyful sounds of celebration once more, and embrace life’s blessings without fear.
As we reflect on the challenges of this year, let us take a moment to appreciate the time we have, to spread kindness, and to remain safe. May the light of Deepavali guide us towards brighter days ahead.
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